Hi Scott
I am not claiming any great experience, but, here are my suggestions.
Without some form of tracking mount, definitely don't try using the telescope. The usable exposure time will be too short.
For a tripod, go to a camera store, look at the ones that are setup, check the legs are tight, put your finger on top and see how stable they are. If you can afford it, buy the most stable one. Remember this is something that can used for a long time, and for others things. Hopefully, someone here will be able to point you at one that is both stable and cheap. Also, try to use it with short legs, they are more stable that way.
For a lens, I suggest trying about 100mm focal length. That may 'zoom' in enough to see something of the nebula, and pick up Jupiter, at least, as a disk.
Use an
intervalometer, these are cheap off ebay.
Link
https://www.ebay.com.au/itm/16139361...frcectupt=true
Also, use a bahtinov mask on the front of the lens. These are also cheap, and I think there are people on the forum who can make them for you. Get one to suit the front end of the lens you use, and I think these things are for a specific focal length.
Make sure you can use the zoom function on the live view of the camera you have. You'll need it to focus.
You might find something like this useful as well, for aiming the camera close to the 'right' spot.
Link
https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:3112271
Find somewhere dark!
Last, but, not least, have fun!
Philip