Hey Monkeyboi,
Fellow forum members have posted good suggestions.
I have a Celestron nexstar 6se and my alignment routine is to
1. Bypass the prompt for initial align
2. Go to menu setup date/time again as it seens to save the last viewing session you have.
3. Ensure your city is set for the observation site.
4. Go back to main menu to do the alignment.
5 i have found 2 star alignment is most accurate
6. Pick stars that have some distance, currently i pick Achernar and Rigel. Use a illuminated alignment plossl or something similiar to get accurate alignment.
7. When alignment you need to do in 2 steps. Hit enter and then the align button for both alignment stars.
8. Test by using tour or the catalog, currently i use m42 orion nebula.
I find the time and date usually catches me out as it neefs to be done every time.
Hope it helps,
Mel