Bert when you accept that reality is a personal thing unrelated to facts or circumstance you have arrived

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One step at a time however.
If we are to select a Universe in which we contend certain forces do certain things perhaps we should observe and establish how each force we seek to enlist actually work... so lets start with attraction ...how does it work?
To make it simple lets place two balls in "nothing" and figure what is going on

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Does ball one send a message to ball two telling it where it is etc and likewise back the other way??? how is that message conveyed..particles or a wave...how /... simple how???
Not that I can say how a push may work but just bumping into each other will get us by without bending anything

... we can even do that without an aether if that makes folks happy

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As to the uncertainty principle it has become the tail wagging the dog it is a rule of exception yet becomes the main point of focus in taking some stuf forward...
I was thinking that we could seek a different approach as to gravity..GR says its just a property of space brought about by the bending of "space time"...
OK again if we are to sound smart lets define "space time"...sounds so neat and so very mysterious... but is it a big deal yet no one can tell exactly why...
I could be convinced with the most simple arguement that could present the premise of GR...but I suspect all will say .."oh you need the math etc...no no no..I need only the premise... what is it? can it not be put forward in a statement explaining the idea and what it does for us...I will trust that the math proof given the number devotees and believers in GR is correct ...but what is the premise that this math seeks to support and built an existence upon.
Also if gravity is due to the bending of "space time" how is it bent..and a reply saying it is matter that does it should contain an explaination as to how the matter communicates with space such to creat this bending....
Still before we get there lets inspect the premise of GR...who feels comfortable with the subject such they can post a short outline of the premise of GR.
AND whilst we are at it and given I have to go bush now and must say it now or miss the opportunity.... if we have no aether what can we really call nothing (as in voids etc) and still keep a straight face. Nothing needs the recognition that it is in fact everything

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alex

