It's a well thought out assumption, but we have so little knowledge it's bound to be updated in future history i think.
We don't know yet if life could arise from alternative processes (ie other than amino acids) Perhaps many different worlds are capable of supporting one sort or another.
Also, if one of the rare advanced civilizations spread out into the galaxy, taking their terrestrial ecosystems with them, things could be vastly different.
Of course if the second proposition is true, then Fermi's Paradox comes into play as well....
It's a cool subject...I think life is far and away the most incredible process we know of in the universe.