Buddinseeker
The advise given here about using binoculars is good sound advice.
Some of the best things I have seen in the night sky were with binoculars (Comets of 2004, Andromeda Galaxy on a really clear night, The Magellenic clouds, etc ....)
You might find my Audio on nightskysecrets.com helpful too !
Most important is relax and take your time
