Totally unconnected with gender, - does anyone else here get totally miffed when they hold a door open for the next person in a busy stream of people, and that person just saunters through as if it's your job, and they don't take it off you to hold open in turn for the next person.
Before you know it, you're holding open the door for a never ending stream of people, none of whom will take the door.
When this happens now, I just let go and have often heard the person that it crashes into mutter all sorts of impolite stuff.
Go figure
