Hi Everyone,
This thread, I believe, will become bigger than Ben Hur. It is attracting more attention in an almost exponential enhancement.
Manners are important. It shows respect. It is something that the younger generation takes time to learn. They do eventually learn. I was one of the young generation once and I simply thought manners were for old fuddy duddies. I changed my ways. I believe this is the norm.
To develope polite ways as you proceed through life.
Through pure chance or whatever, I found that by being kind to neighbours when you arrive at a new residence was a huge advantage.
For example back in the 70's We took up residency in Wulguru (Townsville). I grew lots of vegetables, strawberries, bananas and Pawpaws. I gave all excess produce to my neighbours.
I never had a nasty neighbour. I lived in all kinds of situations and I was warned that so and so is bad. I made myself known. Gave some excess produce and all was harmonious. Sometimes it was a beer or some offer of help. It made things sweet.
I've told you this story to reinforce what jjj posted.
I've simply illustrated how I see life in jjj's words.
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Originally Posted by jjjnettie
Kindness, respect and good manners towards others is the social lubricant that enables a civilized society to run smoothly.
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With a little effort you can make a friend of any sane person. First you must show that you want to be friends through good manners. It may only be a friendly wave. It does a lot to promote good relations.
Everyone where I currently live waves to each other. That was started by me when I first came to Burpengary 8 years ago. I waved to all the neighbours and it now is almost mandatory. A simple wave became contagious.
Good manners are not limited to opening doors and tipping hats etc. It goes further. It is the essence of harmonious social behaviour.
I may find myself limited in time to wish you all an enjoyable entry to the New Year. However it is forwarded to each and every one of you and that the New Year will be profitable, safe and enjoyable.
Happy New Year to you All. (That includes the Moderators)
Cheers