Your house is obviously in his territory so he is not going to go away. He is attacking a perceived rival male in the window and trying to drive it out of his territory. You've also semi-domesticated him if he is eating out of your hand.
By threathening to call him nasty names or refusing to feed him already tells me that you two have developed quite the relationship, you're already sounding like an old married couple. Short of shooting him off your property, your problem (i.e. early morning wake up) will not change whether or not you do either.
I think it's very beautiful, I wish you infinite happiness and hope you can resolve the morning squabbles as soon as humanly (and avianly) possible.
