There's nothing written in stone yet Ken. At this stage it's a dream of mine to live there. (I've always wanted to even before I married an American!) She came here because I thought I was set for life with the job I had.

(mistake #1)
It may happen, & it may not too! My missus misses her family terribly (mistake #2 she never realized the implications in being so far away) so she's out of here, now weather she comes back or I go there I'm not sure. (yet)
Time will tell!
Dual citizenship for both of us sounds good. 2-3 years here, 2-3 years in the US then move back again. Best of both worlds!