I have had the same response as Suzy, on many occasions

I had a friend and his wife here for the weekend and she was the one interested in Astronomy

he just sat on the veranda drinking his stubbie (as you do ) when she asked him to come and look at Saturn through thye 8"SCT? he looked through the eye piece and said "so what"

She said you are brain dead


,go back to your beer and we spent the rest of the night observing

Cheers