[KenGee (Kenith Gee)]

Hi Alex, If I may try and help here what they guys a trying to say is, you really do have to understand the math to understand it. Think of it this way, Do you speak another language? Often people will talk about thinking in French and having to swap over to thinking in English. The whole deal with Maths is, it is a language, a very beautiful language unlike any other we have ( for a start it's based on logic ). Think of the word Hygge look it up here. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Culture_of_Denmark
It's a difficult concept to understand without knowing the language, so no easy answer Alex in fact people may draw you away from the real answer in an attempt to help you understand.
BTW I'm bilingual my native tongue is gibberish though I do speak a bit of English.