Roger,
Can you take screen shots of each of the driver tabs you see for the card.
I have a laptop that uses an Express Card slot, and had some trouble with my ST7 getting it to fly (it too has issues with not allocating against the legacy addresses), but I got it working.
I got this
PDF relating to using a laptop with no legacy parallel port from SBIG. It may vaguely assist in the debug process.
I would also check using CCDOps FIRST, rather than CCDSoft.