Can you het a local to come out and gibe you a second opinion.
If the daughter eloped, you could have whatever scope you wanted. The wife might not be too happy though.
Having myself got married, ( and marriage is a great thing) knowing what I know, I'd have got married in a park, and had a barby and saved the wedding money for a house deposit. The whole wedding do is a bit overrated.
So get someone to at least have a squiz before you drop away.
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