G'day Greg
With the kit you have No 1:- is ACP
It has a very nice web interface that allows limited functional control of your equipment (scope and camera). You just assign the user an account, password and set their privileges. Those privileges consist of the ability to compress images, web uploading, access to the built in FTP server, script execution or admin rights.
The guru for remote access is Marcus
http://jatobservatory.org