Point 1. Go to a star party, astro night, find people in your area who have these scopes.
Point 2. This debate has been raging world wide for years and will never be answered.
Point 3. As been said many times on this site, "The best scope for you is the one you use". So to find the one your really want see Point 1.
I have a 10X50 binocs, a 60mm refractor, and 80mm refractor, a 100mm refractor, and 200mm sct and I'm trying to save up for either a 300mm or 400mm Dob (probably the 400 eventually). Why so many. They each have advantages and disadvantage (ignore the aperture rule) and I love using each and everyone I have and I'm sure I'm going to love using the 400mm when I eventually get one.
See Point 1.