It a 2005 Honda. And no, we got the prognosis from the vet - she's stuffed
The head is cracked in three places and between the cost of a Jap Import engine or getting it welded and machined (plus the girly-car surcharge every mechanic we have dealt with so far likes to charge), it is much the same.
At least she who is remaining nameless will pay attention to giant red flashing lights in the future...