Well....after all the advice and reading and looking I finally bought one today! I got the Celestron Astromaster 130EQ for $599. I looked at 10" Dobs because everyone here seems to like them so much but I so wouldnt be able to manage one of those haha they almost look bigger than me and I really wanted something I would be able to lift and set up without having to hassle anyone for help with. Thankyou so much to everyone here with your encouraging words and support, I was almost convinced it would be a no go with my neck but so far this feels quite comfortable. Anyway just thought I'd let you all know i'm ready and armed and look forward to joining in in the forum now that i'm started!
