It looks like the ample proportioned female might be singing. Although there was a lot of heat in this thread I think in the end the process produced the best possible outcome. I certainly learnt from the different points of view. It seems everbody's feelings aren't too hurt after all but there is a rather strange bit of life advice from a new member in this thread.

Keep up the good work everbody. Cheers and a virtual beer for Chris and Stuart and everybody else.