david...
from one of the few women on here.....forget the white light... unless u want her blinded and not to be able to see u at all!!!!... those things are BRIGHT! so white light is bad!!!... i say do the rose and candle light room!... or unless you have bedroom lights that dim.. that works too! the other thing is if u do wear the head lamp.... and you go to kiss her... you will be head butting her with the lamp.. and that wont be pretty! :\ so ditch the head lamp... unless she likes it...
