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Unfortunately I have to agree than there seems to be more and more inconsiderate neighbours around. I rent and have done so for years. There is a lot to be said for the humble approach and willingness to be tolerant of those whom would otherwise press your buttons.
Offcourse the areas in which you live, may give rise to the arrogance or tolerance of others...I was once a rather arrogant fellow, but somehow over the years, lengthened my fuse and learnt that diplomacy does work out in the end, if not for my own sanity.
I have one set of neighbours; I now talk to over the fence, after requesting if they would consider turning their lights off & explaining my reasons & passion for astronomy. It was a little tense at first, but they now respect me as I do them. Unfortunately on the other side of the fence...MMMM...let’s just say they take great pleasure (or simply just oblivious to light pollution and its effect & the worst timing in the world!) in waiting until I have completely set-up & then go “FLICK” LOL...I really have to laugh as it’s taken me a great deal of effort not to react...now when they go flick and look through the window at me, I simply put up all my home made Blinkers...one or two on the fence to block the incoming flood lights...a light shield on the scope itself...and a hood over my head and eye piece. Over times you will get those sensor flood lights going off as well. I find keeping my dog inside & making friends with the dog next door helpful in this regard J At least animals have the ability to show more respect!
Normally I would approach a neighbour to explain my predicament about light pollution...however there are just some neighbours that to do so would in some way worsen the situation. Just be as patient as you can be, don’t be reactive, but Pro-active. To this point I have learnt as much as I can to decrease the effect of such arrogance or plain ignorance by utilising the many techniques available for light pollution. Next year I hope to obtain a 16” Dob and perhaps even work towards enticing the neighbours kids to have a look despite the tension...
Just don’t react...keep the door open and be an ambassador for astronomy...easier said than done, given some neighbours...They will soon get sick of not getting a reaction J
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