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Above all setting new goals is probably the most important thing... when we have a program that leads to achievement we tend to question less the relevance of what we are doing.. the job fits the plan so it happily gets done.
Written goals I great... place them where you are reminded constantly...
Working out why we do things is neat...
It is hard to be honest but if you can scrape away to the raw base need you seek to fulfill it is great...
I wanted a eq6...desparately..why?...I was surprised when I honestly answered myself...so I can do go images and show them off on iceinspace ... it was a look at me thing that was going on deep down... knowing that my emotions were not positive and bowing to a base desire I put the purchase off until I determined I would post fewer images and do it for me not to show off....so I got the mount and try not to show off...the reason I dont get serious about my iages is a recognition that showing off is part of me and it is not nice... anyways it takes peace and quiet to understand what is driving oneself...we work out what we want to do and then invent stories to justify our choice....
My Son wants to take his daughter ..when five years old...on a surfing holiday to show her the NSW coast...how nice of him...how considerate...taking his time to show his daughter the coast.... dam it..he wants the holiday and uses as justification that he is really being a good Dad...we all do this sort of thing...and although his desire is apparent when we observe he would deny any accusation suggesting that he was doing the trip not for his daughter but for himself... we do that all the time...and so our motivations can be hidden to us and confussing to others...
Mike I think you had better make an appointment we need to revieve your diet and sleep pattens as well...
Good luck ... I will end with ..please know we have ups and downs and one of the secrets (well its not a secret now that I post it) is to simply know such is so...
alex
alex
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