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Originally Posted by Alchemy
the camera idea is the one you must use. record him being a problem several times... then if you can handle him physically, when he comes over go out to (have a chat) and when he gets physical .... its time to take out the trash .... put him in hospital, broken nose, jaw etc . that should get the attention of the police etc and put him away for a while. if you cant handle him find a mate who can. dont use any weapons as it would then look bad for you, as it needs to be self defence, not a premeditated situation.
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It took 2 big beefy cops to subdue him on another occasion earlier this year when he had been continuously flipping and ranting and yelling and I decided enough of this bull early one morning when he was having a horrendous flip out (I called 000 at 3am on that occasion and they arrived at 4am , and it took over two hours to get into his house and take him away that time).
I think I would need an "equaliser" to be able to deal physically with him - he's also bigger than me - bigger they are the harder they fall - my problem is he can run a lot faster than I can - moves bloody quick when he wants too I've seen him ....
But he's also a coward - I confronted him once (the usual confrontations have been vocal , this was physical !!!) and I was ready to come to blows (I wanted to deck him over very loud music day and night all the time despite the cops telling him to turn it down several times over a period of many days ) , he refused to come out and face me - I was telling to come outside and face me like a man and indicated I wanted to fight him - boy was I angry -- I was seeing RED!!!! .... I'm a peaceloving and non-violent man by temperment as anyone who knows me well will attest and have rarely been angry enough to resort to violence or even to threaten the use of violence - even when I was a kid - preferring to reason with people or just walk away or ignore them .... but - you can't reason with him , he want honour any agreement reached if you do talk with him (which is a waste of breath) , and it is impossible to ignore his behaviour.
