Thanks everyone!
I think the generally accepted limiting mag for a 12" scope is about 15.3. I've read in Sky and Tel that Stephen O'Meara has sighted the central star in M57 with a 9" refractor from a suburban location and Dave Knisley on CN has commented that he made mag 15.7 with 9.25" SCT (see here:
http://www.cloudynights.com/ubbthrea...3/Main/2564868 ).
The galaxies and stars I mentioned were at high elevation and out here at Berwick light pollution is not as bad, the sky is still "black", not orange
Maybe ngcles can help us out here...