Yes, you now know the meaning of "mis-collimate"! It's a real word.
Did it all start off pretty well in collimation? If so, you will be able to get it back there.
I'm sure that it must be the tilt of your secondary. So that reflection of the primary is moving around all over the place as you adjust the three secondary collimation screws? Surely, then keep fiddling. If that doesn't get you there, loosen the three off and grab hold of that secondary mirror holder and move it about by hand while watching the primary reflection through the focusser. Once it is roughly centred, hold it and screw the three collimating screws back against the mirror holder. If you cannot get it centred, something has gone mechanically wrong. Check the focusser and secondary area carefully, is my suggestion then.
I vaguely recall a thread about a bent central bolt on the secondary of a lightbridge some months ago??