H0ughy I don't think you have any problems. Everything you have done sounds perfectly reasonable to me. I have a three bedroom house and sleep in the lounge room as all the bedrooms have irreplaceable valuable stuff in them. I had to empty the master bedroom of 'stuff' so my daughter could stay for a week or so just recently. She said that she knew how highly I thought of her after she saw all the junk (her word) that I had moved so she could have a room to sleep in.
You never know when anything will come in handy. So never throw away or sell anything! It is alright to donate to a fellow hoarder as the item is not lost for all time!
It might help though if you pander to her irrational demands and that way you could install the pier and build the observatory. Then just put the stuff back where it belongs.
Bert
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