As a general thought I say...Things just are...neither good or bad..it is our personal qualifiction that makes something good or bad... when you hold this thought all things are bearable...but from seeing things this way it allows us to see the good in things or the bad in things..by our qualification...
I think what causes our frustration with others views is our inability to change them to our own... well there is no need for that frustration... if your view is made known you have done your bit.. there is no need for frustration that the world does not immediately change course to match the one you have set it....
So relax and look for new facts you may not be aware of when you engaged in the discussion ..
alex
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