Hi Doug,
I had the same thing happen to me a few months ago. I used the live help thing on ebay and ended up getting refunded for the listing. They also helped me set up a few things in my account to avoid it happening in future.
This may help -
To add buyer requirements to your listings:
In My eBay, under the My Account column, click the "Preferences" link.
In the Seller Preferences section, click the “Edit” link. The Buyer Requirements page opens.
Select your buyer requirements. These include blocking buyers who:
Are registered in countries to which you don't ship
Have a negative feedback score
Have received Unpaid Item strikes
Are currently winning or have bought '1-100' of your items in the last 10 days
Do not have a PayPal account
Click the Submit button to save your requirements.
The most important one would be to block buyers from countries that you're not willing to ship to.
