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Originally Posted by xelasnave
Well Leon...you have heard folk say." It is all in your head"?....That is sortta true ... things just " are"..not good or bad, fair unfair, right or wrong...they just "are"...my cancer to me was not good or bad, it was not fair or unfair, it was not right or wrong...and so I had no demons to fight..and able to look at all the around me..the doctors, nurses, wardsmen, cleaners, other patients, family and friends...there are so many and they are all there for you and care for you...and so there can be no room for false judgement that blinds you to the sheer wonderfulness of this new journey and how you can appreciate more than you ever thought possible...Un fortunately we are all raised to think there is more after death and somehow we forget that irrespective of what may come after death our current life must treasured and so that means to never waste time on a destructive thought or to indulge a negative emotion...the negatives, the worry, falling for " it's just it not fair" trip, or its "bad" etc...these things are what take real life away...if you have 24 hours tomorrow every waking moment must not be wasted...and so..no judgement on good or bad ..fair or unfair..
It is the only thing that is important ..and no matter how it goes ... we each only have one day....today.....the past and the future do not exist...
So work on your attitude and just enjoy the journey.
Alex
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Good advice. Sounds like positivity is your super power!