Hey Dave,
Welcome back mate, - and wow, what a story that is! I read it from start to finish.
You're very special mate, you've come thru a lot.
Just one thing remains to be done... And that is....
Put Wordpress on your site buddy! It's totally free and will enhance the look and feel of your website enormously. Plus it will make future updates much easier
I wish you all the best for continued good health and happiness, - if anyone deserves it mate, you do