[Wombat_In_Space (Darren)]

My solution is to tell the wife the truth, I show her what I want and how much it is in real dollars and then ask if I can have it, so far it is working and best part is I get surprises on birthday, fathers day and Xmas.

The downside is it takes longer to get some things, but I have the rest of my life so time is not a problem. Upside no guilt or hidding things from the wife.