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Old 20-02-2016, 08:54 AM
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Damn right it is!

This thread is 100% Passive Aggressive!


It has to be.

The attitude of 'grow a pair, sister' is a destructive one. It has its place, don't get me wrong, in the RIGHT place it means life or death. But here is not the place for this approach.

"Help Help i'm being bullied BAN the open forum poster as I don't like the cut of their jib" Sorry mate, that shows a lack of understanding of what I am talking about. I am not talking about a broken finger nail. I am all for robust discussion. But to ridicule, stomp, lambast, you really think that is a mature attitude?

If all you see is sissy attitudes regarding what bullying is, I feel sorry for you. If you see it as weakness for taking it on, I feel sorry for you.

I had this attitude once too. What will it take for you to come to see it is not a great one to hold? Nothing weak in it. I managed to stop a mate taking his life because I changed too. He named his first son after me five years later.

'Bullying' has a lot of sissy connotations. It is much broader than just an eight letter word. Cowardice in espousing it is the real sissy.