Just stand back a while.
It's actually really simple, once you have identified what it is you think you need to do for yourself, or with or for those around you.
A large proportion of the feedback or advice you may receive on a forum like this may be from new people with a non-astronomy background, who have been drawn to the subject by purely imaging ambitions, or photography bling, and that is a fantastic thing because their lives are being enriched by a process of new opportunity- if it wasn't for the internet, how many people or even members here would have found astronomy on their own?
Please carefully consider your own needs first before you absorb the musings of any forum content here, so please be in no rush, the skies are not.
