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brian nordstrom
09-10-2012, 09:46 PM
:shrug: Man I have had another reply to a thread removed by the Mod's for no reason , no PM , nothing ,, this is not only getting to wear a little thin :question: to me but others here as well have Pm'd me on this over the last few weeks ??? .
What gives ?? :mad2: ..
I believe my answer was in good faith , no swearing , selling , or the such , so what gives ?? :hi: guys ?
Brian.

Octane
09-10-2012, 10:01 PM
Was it in the buy/sell forum?

H

iceman
10-10-2012, 06:52 AM
An example might help..

sheeny
10-10-2012, 07:00 AM
As Mike said and example might help, but I'm sure I haven't missed sending any PMs about any posts I've deleted... and I haven't deleted any of yours in a while:shrug:.

Al.

iceman
10-10-2012, 07:05 AM
Same.
Usually it's chatter in IceTrade that gets deleted.

iceman
10-10-2012, 07:06 AM
And you know Brian, you could always send a PM to a moderator and ask us, instead of posting it here? :shrug:

FlashDrive
10-10-2012, 12:34 PM
I had a post deleted some time ago ..!!
It was in Telescopes and Mounts.

I congratulated a guy on a buying a SDM from a fellow member.
Said what a terrific ' score ' and just a superb piece of kit.

I don't think the Mods like general chat in the Classifieds ..!!

It was deleted ... even thou' the Scope was SOLD.

Flash ..!!

iceman
10-10-2012, 02:33 PM
The TOS for classifieds is very clear - no chatter in the for sale threads.

PM the user if you have something to say.

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 08:27 PM
:) No the " Equipment discussions " forums :shrug: . and thanks Octane for a little intrest , I have not seen any relpies but yours yet , but I will get there , so :sadeyes: watch this space ..
Brian

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 08:28 PM
:) See Octane's reply .
Oh yes I have recieved quite a few PM's on this tonight , thats why I am a little late getting on :thumbsup: thanks guys .
Brian.
Brian.

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 08:31 PM
:) See Octanes reply , and yes Al I dont mind if a PM is recieved as I have from you a few times , thanks for that :thumbsup: , it helps a lot in letting us peasents know when we have made a fopar ,, no problems and does not get my back up ;) .
Brian.

Octane
10-10-2012, 08:32 PM
What was the thrust of your comment that got deleted?

H

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 08:36 PM
:thumbsup: You to Iceman , I respect getting deleted when a PM is forth comming telling me I made a stuff up , and I have PM'd you back ( More than once ) apoligising , which it is the way to go , Because it is easy to get into a thread and forget protocol . :thanx: . as some of the threads are awsome ..:D .
But when one dissapairs with out a trace that was there the day before ,, well :mad2:,,
Brian.

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 08:42 PM
:) Octane it was a discussion on 2 scopes , a 114mm and 100mm reflector's the person was looking to buy , they supplied 2 threads ;) , so it was easy to see where they were going , short on cash and wanting advice . :thumbsup: .
I put my 5c in and suggested the 100mm as it had way better accessories , and the seller's were honest on the magnifications and said so , :shrug: thats all ??? :question: . My reply was there monday night , gone without a trace last night :mad2: . My back got up , as how is this objectionable :shrug:.
Thanks again for your intrest .
Brian

Octane
10-10-2012, 08:43 PM
Seems really odd!

Gremlins, I'd say. :)

H

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 08:46 PM
:hi: ha ha , Na I got deleted along with a few others on that one Colin , but hey if you cant pat a fellow amateur astronomer on the back for a GREAT !! deal , in public ,,, :question: well ? I might as well move to Holland ... ;) .
IIS in Dutch :thumbsup:.
Brian.

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 08:48 PM
;) I will agree , but I will send you a PM , ( see I am learning :lol: ) on what a few fellow IIS'r said on this ok , be ready for this as its not pretty ..
Brian.

leon
10-10-2012, 08:50 PM
Na, no Gremlins, it has happened to me too, sometimes they, the post/thread just disappears.

I am not to fussed, but it dose happen.

Leon

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 09:02 PM
;) Thanks Leon , I just recieved another 2 positive for me PM's a little negitive for IIS , but not to put a spin on this thread but to see a reply there after you type it in then find it gone the next day is well ..:question: Gremilinish a little :D .
Brian .

Ausrock
10-10-2012, 09:27 PM
I didn't think of PM'ng you :doh: so avoided posting a comment earlier. Brian, on the audio forums I moderate on, if we have to "act" on an issue, we, out of courtesy PM the originator of the issue. Long before IIS existed we discussed how to handle difficult situations and being uncommunicative, heavy handed and dictatorial were things we deliberately chose to avoid and time has proven us wise in our decisions..........it is absolutely rare to see threads like this (something that seems to be a relatively regular occurence here) arise.

This thread makes interesting reading......... http://www.iceinspace.com.au/forum/showthread.php?t=87573

:cool2:

brian nordstrom
10-10-2012, 09:42 PM
:thumbsup: Thanks Chris , I have spoken to 12 or more people tonight via PM's on this issue , Interesting all right , I am waiting for a few more replies as a few comments on some threads have dissapared in the last 30 miniutes ,, :shrug: . like were there 45 miniutes ago and now vanished ? scary stuff .
We will see where this goes .
Brian.

leon
10-10-2012, 10:29 PM
Not scary Brian, it is cyber space, and nothing is private, although we are lead to believe otherwise, and IIS is no different.

Leon

h0ughy
10-10-2012, 10:42 PM
i was going to keep my trap shut, but after reading this drivel by the same people over the same issues doing the same things that they know they shouldn't, eventually it all circles around and disappears up somewhere dark!

can't you just accept the verdict? the icetrade rules are there for a reason? no its not a perfect world and its certainly not a democratic site, it has rules which all of you accepted when you joined.

speaking as an ex moderator can say that the number of things that a moderator has to get through on here is a lot. having to individually reply to regular users who know the rules and continue to flaunt them - well you do the math.... not enough time in the day.

lazy way out - no - because they were busy cleaning up ice trades some spammer probably hit the site then they will have to deal with that as well?

it was certainly a huge frustration to me, burned me out really. so ask yourself this, do you really have to add a comment in ice trades?

Tandum
10-10-2012, 11:08 PM
Suck it up mate. You agreed to be a mod. Didn't they tell you it would be a pain in the arse :)

leon
10-10-2012, 11:38 PM
do you really have to add a comment in ice trades?

Actually why not, unless it interferes with the actual item being sold.

Leon

h0ughy
10-10-2012, 11:50 PM
no that was the fine print;). generally it was a great time moderating, then you get moments like these.

Leon i really think you are missing the point? lets just say that i disagree with your reality (to paraphrase a myth buster)...

barx1963
11-10-2012, 12:06 AM
Because it is specifically not allowed in the TOS!
See (taken from clause 10 of the TOS)

Please don't post replies to someone else's ad unless it's specifically related to the item - that is, if you're asking relevant questions about it, perhaps with a view to purchasing.
Keep off-topic and spam posts out of the IceTrade Classifieds. It's not going to help someone sell their gear if the threads contain off-topic posts.

and if I was trying to sell something I don't want comments cluttering up my ad. There is a whole raft of equipment fora here on IIS to give comments on gear, likes and dislikes, why clutter up someone elses ad to do that? I will confess I made a comment on an ad at one time, simply trying to be helpful to a prospective purchaser about some non astro gear that I have personal expertise about and the OP (rightly) was mighty upset about it.

Lets all just take a deep breath, maybe have a read of the TOS and try to be a little more, I dunno, relaxed. Really, its just a forum!!

Oh and there is a specific invitation in the TOS that if any member has a problem with the actions of a mod they can take it up with Mike. Of course it is his site so he can do whatever he likes on it!

Malcolm

Ausrock
11-10-2012, 12:16 AM
Unless I'm misreading things, post #9 indicates this particular issue had nothing to do with Ice trades :confused2:

pgc hunter
11-10-2012, 12:18 AM
All you New South Welshman and NT'ers are forgetting the big picture. You are all lucky you don't live in Melbourne, because then, a few deleted posts here and there will become a very insignificant little distant memory as you attempt to delete fossilized cobwebs from your optics :lol:

iceman
11-10-2012, 04:50 AM
OMG I can't believe this is still going.

Still Brian has not contacted me but continues to post rubbish in this thread. It's really easy - Brian could easily look through his post history, which is exactly what I just did.

No bloody posts of his were deleted. Simple as that.



Try this one (http://www.iceinspace.com.au/forum/showpost.php?p=902156&postcount=8)
And this one (http://www.iceinspace.com.au/forum/showpost.php?p=902473&postcount=15)
Happy now? They were never deleted.



Absolute rubbish. Send me a specific example of this happening or I'm going to start getting really mad at your ridiculous claims.
Either 3 things are happening:
1. You have absolutely no idea what you posted in and what you didn't
2. You have no idea how to find the threads you posted in
3. You're trolling and purposely posting this thread, and continuing to post in this thread (without even contacting me) with the intent of causing problems.

If it's #1 or #2, a little education might help and you can apologise to myself and the moderators for the accusations and admit your own fault.
If it's #3 you'll find yourself on a permanent holiday from IceInSpace.




Seriously Leon?
The rule wasn't made up just because I felt like it. It was because people ASK for chatter to be deleted in THEIR for sale threads.
It's because some people think it's a good idea to post things like negative comments that could hurt the sale.
Even when the comments don't hurt the sale, some people think it's the seller getting their 'friends' to comment to try and make the sale look better than it really is. So it then still hurts the sale.

You can't post chatter to ads on ebay.
You can't post chatter to ads on trading post, or in the paper.
You can't post chatter to ads on IceTrade.

There's been times we've almost setup the system to completely disallow ANY comments on the IceTrade threads, simply to avoid having to have the TOS 'ask' people not to post chatter. That way it would FORCE people to ask questions via PM and we wouldn't have this issue.

People like to post their 'PM sent' etc so we haven't implemented this yet.

But when some people (Leon and Brian included) continue to post chatter in IceTrade, despite having your posts continually deleted in IceTrade, it certainly makes me think a forced system implementation would be better.

There's 22 different sub-forums you can post replies on. Don't post in IceTrade unless you're selling something or asking a question with the possible intention of buying the item. It's a really simple rule.

sheeny
11-10-2012, 07:21 AM
By way of explanation, behind the scenes us moderators can see a lot of stuff the normal members of IIS can't. We can see every post and thread that is deleted. We have our own forum where we track posts that are reported and what we do or don't do about them and why.

So its simple, Brian. All you have to do is send us a link to the thread where your post is supposed to be deleted from, and we will be able to see who deleted it (if it was) and whether or not a PM was sent, or whether the post was never there.

Keep in mind:

Just because you went through the motions typing a post, doesn't mean it made it to IIS. The same could happen with a PM, but if it made it to your sent box, I expect it would appear in the receivers Inbox being in the same system.

Al.

Barrykgerdes
11-10-2012, 08:21 AM
I would like to say one thing before this thread is closed.

I have once once or twice posted a "harmless" reply to a thread and then looked back at the thread and not seen it.

In each case a search of my posts has revealed it, posted to the wrong thread. I don't know how it happens but I expect it was a typing error on my part.

I have removed the post and re-inserted it in the right place.

Barry

PS As a moderator on another forum I know the problems and abuse that can occur. B.G.

barx1963
11-10-2012, 09:10 AM
Further to Barrys comment I have had the same experience. With so many threads and some thread attracting large volumes of posts it is very easy to lose track.
A simple search in your statistics tab will reveal all your posts.

Malcolm

Kunama
11-10-2012, 09:47 AM
Gentlemen and gentlewomen, we are not talking about life and death here, it is just some posts on a community forum.
I would hate to see such a wonderful resource for enthusiasts suffer or lose valuable members, the very helpful Brian N. included, over such minor issues.

Being new here I probably have and will post things in the wrong areas from time to time and if such posts get deleted or moved to other areas so be it. From what I can see the guidelines are very clear with regard to the classified section.
For sale etc ads should be just that, in fairness to each seller, there should be no extraneous comments, although I agree that "PM sent" and also "PM sent-offer only" are justifiable and also helpful posts and should be retained as they give other buyers an indication where they stand in the queue for an item. Likewise, sellers should ensure they update their ads when sold or sale pending.
If you want to endorse or disendorse an item for sale, send the interested party a PM.
If you suspect fraud or similar contact site admin.

If the mods choose to delete posts that obviously go against guidelines why should they also have to waste time justifying it by PM. If a post is deleted for other reasons then an explanation via PM ought to be made to the author only.

Above all, wherever possible these issues should be resolved via PM with site admin or mods rather than in the public forum.
From my viewpoint the mods and admin here give much more leeway than other fora I have been involved in. Now lets get back to enjoying astronomy !!!!

asimov
11-10-2012, 10:32 AM
What a load of attention seeking rubbish from some here :lol:

Glad I'm not a mod.

Dennis
11-10-2012, 06:39 PM
It seems that there are two types of post.

Those we like – they impart warm strokes to the ego.
Those we don’t like – they seem to challenge our very sense of who we think we are.

The ones we like, no matter how frequent or how many, cannot increase who we really are, at our core; although they certainly inflate the ego, the person we think we are.
Nor can we be diminished by those that trouble our delicate ego, unless we mistakenly believe we have somehow become less significant as a result of a post.

Better to invest in who we are at the core, rather than the fragile ego that seeks attention, wants to always be right and craves attention.

As children we called each other names and had fights in the school yard but usually made up and laughed about our foolishness.

Last week I saw a documentary about the horrific fighting in Syria.
Bombs, rockets, bullets and grenades rained down on people’s dwellings – these barbaric actions seem worthy of complaining about.
Much else seems a little precious.

Cheers

Dennis

multiweb
11-10-2012, 06:54 PM
Too true. Far too many inflated ego trips around here. Some people need a life. Life is good. :lol:

Bassnut
11-10-2012, 07:30 PM
Nah, deletes are very civilized actually. I saw the rate sheet once.
Direct deposit is fastest, CCs attract a 5% surcharge .

Post delete $20
Thread delete $100
Member ban $120
M42 pic post delete $2
Entire IIS shutdown $423,000

All except the last one, mods get a 20% cut, Mike gets the rest.

MrB
11-10-2012, 07:39 PM
Oooo, attractive pricing! :lol:

Octane
11-10-2012, 07:44 PM
lmao, Fred.

H

cjamo9
11-10-2012, 08:33 PM
comon people, lets talk telescopes and bits. thats what we want, yeah.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 09:03 PM
;) Chair ,, so my words are " DRIVEL " ? woaw .. thakks for you momentisious words of wisdom ;) I have really kicked the hornets nest her aint I ? I must have drivelled on it ? :hi:
Top word , that DRIVEL ..:rofl:
Put me in my place .
I was being so diplomatic with all PM's last night , I stuck up with Mod's like you Al , as I believe IIS is a great place , but the hornets seem to be biting ....:shrug: .
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 09:12 PM
:D 2nd PM on its way , and Mike I did send you a PM last night , my sent messages conferms this ? ,
Woaw ! , Brian's kicked the hornets nest ..:rofl:
I realise you jobs as Mod's is not easy , my job as a Boilermakers w/s leading hand is similer , we are the " Meat in the Sandwich " and you 'cant please all the people all the time ' and ' some of the people some of the time ' I realise this , but a problem has occured and I beileve its better for you guys to be aware of it in the open forums for all to see ? ;) . sorry mate .
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 09:19 PM
:shrug: Day light savings comming in perhaps ?? , we dont get it up here so it might cause a conflict ??
Brian.

dannat
11-10-2012, 09:35 PM
Post deleted by myself, was making a joke but changed mind ;):D

Varangian
11-10-2012, 09:37 PM
Brian, you called me Shrek in a previous thread and the mods were angered:lol:

Sorry, trying to make a joke to lighten the mood, tough crowd.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 09:39 PM
:lol: Malcom for MOD's , you got my vote mate , its what we need here , more lawyers ..:rofl: sorry mate , but good points .
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 09:45 PM
:rofl: I hear you Bro , we are heading down the barrel of the WET !!! 6 months or Melbourne ( Clouds and rain ) weather ,, look out , my computer is going to do overtime ,:thumbsup: .
Huntsmen , House spiders and others ,, 150mm across , wait till one of these babies run out after the wet !!!:eyepop: , dont drop the scope !!!!! .mate . :rofl: .
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 09:52 PM
:shrug: how come you Mike can get these ( Mine ) replies and I ( us peasents ) cant find them on our lowely PC's ? are these are not avaliable to me ? No problem from me ...:D .
Sorry for the delay in answering as ,,, Its a buisy thread ,:hi: ( you are now 1 1/2 hour ahead of us here in the NT , bed time I think ?? :lol: and I am enjoying the read . All replies are great , some have been shot down , only to rise again , great stuff .
Brian.

GrahamL
11-10-2012, 09:55 PM
when the quotes roll out the padlocks about! , please kill this dead horse

Kunama
11-10-2012, 10:00 PM
Just got back to Jindabyne, last 20 klms in heavy sleet and snow, 5cm of fresh wet snow in the yard and it is frikkin freezin here ..... thankfully the heat from this thread will warm me up. 3 pages and counting.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 10:09 PM
:thumbsup: Thanks AL , thats easy for some of us peasents , but me ,,,:shrug: self thaught over the years , and one thing I cant do is 'forward a link' , true I have tried ., I cant get it to work :) I have tried most HELP things but it might as well be in , well ,it's in Dutch ... COOL .
But " Drivel " wont compute ,, It a "get's ones back's up " word .
Come on down .
Brian.
Sorry for my

JB80
11-10-2012, 10:12 PM
I can find your posts.
Click your name and then click find all posts. Hope that helps.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 10:22 PM
;) I hear ya , ' Bottle of wine , feeling so fine ....),,, , the problem still remains , some answers to some threads are dissapareing .
And its becoming more prevelevent .
Slicker cyber thugs ?
:lol:.
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 10:24 PM
:lol: Thor , HERE! .... how.s Shrek ? .
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 10:34 PM
:P after this horse has gone .... the boilermaker astronomers will build a stronger steel gate and latch , keep the horse' son :thumbsup: out of the Observatory...
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 10:38 PM
:D 36 degrees , 67% humidity average here at the moment ,, the build up is comming ( 90+%) , the snow is all yours ..:thumbsup:.But I bet you have clear skies ? cool .
Brian.

brian nordstrom
11-10-2012, 10:45 PM
:D I vote for Jarrod , for "LINK Transfer" IIS .
Cool job , thanks , I looked for a spy satalite when I went out for a look at M22 and surounds in my 60mm TAK , cool . after seeing these photos , 1 vote from Brian.
Brian. ,
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PCH
12-10-2012, 12:44 AM
wtf are you on Brian - never heard such rot. Devote more time to learning to spell too before you insult our senses with this drivel.

Sorry - just my 2c. I couldn't resist.

AstroFlyer
12-10-2012, 01:45 AM
Sorry Brian, but I also had no problems finding your "deleted" posts.
Why not be a man & accept you were wrong?
Bottom line - this is a forum with rules.
By posting here you agree to the obey the rules set by the owners/moderators.
Simple as that.
Time to close this thread mods me thinks...

xstream
12-10-2012, 04:42 AM
I'm so glad I don't have to put up with this sort of crap anymore! :rolleyes:

acropolite
12-10-2012, 06:39 AM
Ditto :thumbsup:

iceman
12-10-2012, 06:43 AM
Ditto!

Oh, wait... :(