Blinding light, Flash Bracket ?
I'm a long time photog, try a diffuser, make your own.
A piece of white paper taped over the flash head in a half circle will diffuse and spread the flash coverage.
Many suppliers sell a translucent plastic 'box' to fit on the front of the flash which does the job nicely.
No redeye, no bright noses and harsh reflections.
Have fun playing with light....
